If you are getting married and having a reception, this question will definitely surface. There are many factors to consider when making your decision. First and foremost do you want to do the Bouquet and Garter Toss? You could even just do the Bouquet Toss only if you like. Consider the number of guests that will be in attendance and how many of your guests are not officially married. If all or most of your guests are married, you could have what is called the Anniversary Dance instead. Basically for the anniversary dance your MC invites all the married couples to the dance floor and the couple that is married the longest is presented with the Bouquet.
Typically, it takes about 15 to 20 minutes if you are going to do the Bouquet and Garter Toss. One of the various reasons when a Bride and Groom is having doubts about doing the Bouquet and Garter Toss is fear that no one will want to participate. Another might be because it leaves for more time for dancing or just want to steer away from some of the traditional formalities. If you are getting married, the decision should boil down to the Bride and Groom. Take opinions from professionals, your friends & family, factor in all of their ideas and suggestions, to make your own decision. It is tradition of course, but ultimately its your big day and your choice. It is also a nice pause between the dancing and it is a great way to segway into a crazy hour aka La Hora Loca or just a great way to transition into a different style of music etc. Selecting music is just as important too. WeddingWire has great suggestions on their website. I will provide direct links for you: Bouquet Toss Songs, Garter Removal Songs. The bottom line is that its usually a lot of fun doing the Bouquet and Garter Toss, but if you are not feeling it, then go ahead and pass on it. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me, I would be more than happy to assist.